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How I grew up.

In the old days.

By Guy lynnPublished about 9 hours ago โ€ข 2 min read

I grew up Southern Africa, born and raised and raised in Rhodesia, went to high school in KeaZuluNatal, South Africa-in the 1960s/1970s) I never questioned my mother's income or my father's!! It was never a discussion. We never once discussed how my parents voted or for who. We ate homemade meals consisting of meat, potatoes, and vegetables. We never touched anything that did not belong to us. We never opened a refrigerator at anyone's house unless asked to do so. We were taught to respect other people's property. And we were rewarded for acting properly.

We grew up during a time when we mowed lawns, pulled weeds, babysat, helped with chores. We, by no means, were given everything we wanted. We went outside a lot to play, run with friends, play hide and seek, or went bike riding. We rarely just sat inside.

Bottled water was unheard of, if we wanted water we drank straight from the faucet or hose. If we had a soda, it was in a glass bottle, and we didnโ€™t break the bottle when finished. We saved the bottle for the return money.

We had to tell our parents where we were going, who we were going with, and be home before dark.

You ๐‘ณ๐‘ฌ๐‘จ๐‘น๐‘ต๐‘ฌ๐‘ซ from your parents instead of disrespecting them and treating them as if they knew absolutely nothing. What they said was ๐‘ณ๐‘จ๐‘พ and you did not question it and you had better know it! We watched what we said around our elders and neighbors because we knew if we ๐‘ซ๐‘ฐ๐‘บ๐‘น๐‘ฌ๐‘บ๐‘ท๐‘ฌ๐‘ช๐‘ป๐‘ฌ๐‘ซ any grown-up, we would get a real good whooping, it wasn't called abuse, it was called discipline!

We held the doors for others and carried the shopping into the house. We gave up our seat for an older person without being asked.

You didn't hear swear words on the radio in songs or on TV. "Please and Thank you", were part of our daily vocabulary!

The world we live in now is just so full of people who hate and disrespect others.

Friends, consider re-posting if you're thankful for your childhood. I will ๐‘ต๐‘ฌ๐‘ฝ๐‘ฌ๐‘น ๐‘ญ๐‘ถ๐‘น๐‘ฎ๐‘ฌ๐‘ป where I came from and only wish children and people nowadays had half the chance at the fun and respect for real life we grew up with! And we were never bored. This is the way I grew up & I totally agree. Guy.

Do you all feel the same?

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About the Creator

Guy lynn

born and raised in Southern Rhodesia, a British colony in Southern CentralAfrica.I lived in South Africa during the 1970โ€™s, on the south coast,Natal .Emigrated to the U.S.A. In 1980, specifically The San Francisco Bay Area, California.

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