sexual wellness

Safe sex is the first step to enjoyable sex. Advice on improving your sexual health to improve your sex life.

I feel like a Whore… After Having the Best Sex of My Life
There I was in Minorca, trying to destress after months of work. My plan was pretty basic: soak up the sun, chill at the beach, and drink way too many cocktails. But clearly, the universe had different plans for me.
By Olivia Chastity10 months ago in Filthy
The Relationship Between Vision and Sex. Content Warning.
Vision is the most direct sense through which humans receive information from the world. When observing a person, we primarily rely on our vision. Dr. Anna Rose Childress from the University of Pennsylvania once conducted a study on how male and female brains react to sexual stimuli. The results revealed that the male brain generally responds more intensely than the female brain.
By Jane Li10 months ago in Filthy
Sex is easy, but love is difficult
A client once shared that loving someone wholeheartedly or maintaining a long - term relationship is exhausting. Single life is carefree and relaxed. If there's a sexual desire, one can find various ways to relieve it. The client wondered if it would be great to have sex without love, like Adam and Eve, without the need to put in so much effort into a relationship. Is loving someone wholeheartedly too troublesome and costly?
By Jane Li10 months ago in Filthy
"Aren't You Wet Yet?" Stupid, it's better not to ask that during sex
Sexual happiness doesn't come automatically; it requires effort and attention. The way you interact in daily life and each sexual experience you share can enhance the warmth and connection between you and your partner. Building a fulfilling love or sexual relationship takes time and careful consideration, but these same efforts can also be the very things that destroy the love between two people. A minor mistake or a small argument can quickly cool down an intimate relationship. In fact, I've found that it's rare for major events to cause significant friction and a rapid decline in intimacy. More often, it's the accumulation of minor issues that lead to problems. Therefore, it's crucial to handle everyday flirting and interactions with care to prevent minor problems from affecting your relationship.
By Jane Li10 months ago in Filthy
The Role of Hearing in Sex
Imagine this: when you're having sex with your partner, there's no need to mimic the exaggerated moans of porn stars. Simply following your body's sensations and rhythm will naturally lead to vocal expressions that reflect the genuine experience. As a sex therapist would say, "The soft moans and gasps in the bedroom not only excite men but also help women immerse themselves more deeply in the erotic atmosphere."
By Jane Li10 months ago in Filthy
How to maintain the hardness of penile erection at all times
Achieving and maintaining a strong erection is a concern that affects many men at some point in their lives. Whether you're experiencing temporary issues or looking to enhance your sexual performance, this guide offers practical, actionable advice to support male sexual health and improve erectile function through thoughtful lifestyle adjustments and consistent daily habits.
By Jane Li10 months ago in Filthy
When to Have Sex
Is there a “perfect time” to have sex—or is it just a myth? While movies and media glamorize spontaneity, real-life intimacy thrives on timing, health, and emotional readiness. Whether you’re navigating a new relationship, planning a pregnancy, or simply trying to understand your body better, knowing when to have sex can make all the difference. Let’s uncover the science, psychology, and timing behind this powerful human experience.
By MAROOF KHAN10 months ago in Filthy
A Different Kind of Summer
“Stop it!” Karl said as he slapped my phone out of my hand. “She’s not going to text you back anytime soon.” I stared back at his cold brown eyes. “Fine,” I said, sitting back in my chair. I looked back over my right shoulder. Kristin was sitting with her friends, all of them laughing and conversing with each other.
By Alexander Martin10 months ago in Filthy
Men's Sexual Confessions: Understanding and Overcoming Intimacy Issues
In my professional experience, I've listened to many men's concerns and explored the topic of sexual communication. Most male clients assume that a decline in sexual activity is due to their partner's lack of sexual desire or passion. However, the gradual demise of sexual harmony is often a result of both partners' actions. Here are common concerns and shadows that plague men's minds. Addressing these issues can naturally reignite mutual sexual desire.
By Jane Li10 months ago in Filthy
Sex also requires taste
Most men lack taste in sex! Women often complain that most men don’t have much sexual taste. As a result, many men focus on the quantity rather than the quality of sex. The key to solving this problem lies in whether men can put aside their pride and learn humbly. If every time you have sex, you only think about whether you’ve ejaculated and felt good, then perhaps watching porn and masturbating might be more suitable for you. A man who truly wants to improve his sexual taste must be willing to listen to women and pay attention to their feelings.
By Jane Li10 months ago in Filthy
"Shielding Yourself from HIV: Smart Choices for a Safer, Healthier Life" . Content Warning.
Human Immunodeficiency Virus (HIV) remains one of the most significant global health issues, despite decades of awareness, education, and scientific advances. HIV attacks the immune system, weakening the body’s ability to fight infections and disease. While there is no cure yet, HIV is preventable. By understanding how the virus spreads and adopting smart protective measures, individuals can significantly reduce their risk of infection. This article outlines the key strategies to protect yourself and others from HIV in a realistic and human-centered approach.
By Farhan Rafid10 months ago in Filthy
His Request Chapter One: Happy Birthday!
“Joel, can you stay and help us clean up?” Ryan asked me. “Sure, no problem,” I replied. Ryan and Kylie were my neighbors. They had moved in just over a year ago. Everyone on the street was glad they had come and fit right in. They weren’t as loud as the last people who lived in this house, and they were polite.
By Alexander Martin10 months ago in Filthy